Its official: summer has arrived! For me, summer isn’t really about a set date on the calendar or hitting a particular temperature on the thermometer. Nope. For me, summer is all about the last day of school. When school ends summer begins.
We’re on day four of summer 2009, and so far, so good. The kids begged and pleaded with us not to send them to Y camp this summer. We (finally) agreed after reaching the conclusion that childhood is too short and there are too few summers to turn it into something dreaded—something that you’re just trying to get through. Luckily, we have options…so we decided to explore some of them. Enter plan B.
Plan B is for the kids to attend some specialty camps that they *want* to attend, not camps they *have* to attend. The goal is to 1) give Mom and Dad some work time, and 2) give the kids some mental and physical stimulation that doesn’t involve the T.V. or any sort of video game. The one drawback to this plan is that we’ll be spending quite a bit of time driving kids to and from camps. And every week is a different schedule. This can keep things interesting, but also makes it difficult to really get into a routine, at least during regular waking hours.
Then, the buffet syndrome set in. All the camps looked really great so we kept saying yes, and piling our plate full of camps! When I put all the dates on the calendar, added the baseball and softball schedules, and guitar lessons…I gasped. “What have I done?” I’ve completely overbooked us!
See, we all have different comfort zones. For me, white space on a calendar, unscheduled down-time is good. It is comfortable. I like breathing room and space…and plan B didn’t leave much downtime.
Enter plan C. I realized I had to carve out some uninterrupted, focused work time. Looking at the calendar there wasn’t going to be too much opportunity for that during the standard work day. Sure, there are blocks of time, some longer than others. But, each day has built-in interruptions, and that doesn’t even take into account the unexpected (yet inevitable) interruptions that come with working in a home office. This is fine for some kinds of work that I do…but doesn’t work great for writing which is the primary “in office” task for many of my projects this summer.
Plan C entails rearranging my schedule—the times of day I have most control over—so it puts me back into my comfort zone. The times of day I have control over are at night when the kids are in bed and first thing in the morning when everyone is still asleep. Morning is my best writing time, so plan C involves putting the power of the early morning to work for me. My plan is to get up every day this summer at 5 AM for some quiet, focused, uninterrupted writing time.
As I said above—so far, so good. I’m on day 4 of this new plan and four days into creating a new habit. I’m using Twitter to hold myself accountable, reporting each morning that I did in fact get up at 5 AM!
All of it is working really well. I love the quiet time…in fact morning is fast becoming my favorite part of the day. And Twitter is working well as my “accountability partner.” This morning, as I contemplated staying in bed just a bit longer, the thought of sharing on Twitter that I didn’t get up at 5 AM was enough motivation to drag my tired self out of bed and get to work! So far, so good.
The moral of the story is this. Sometimes we have to create new routines that push us out of our comfort zone in one area of our life (getting out of bed at 5 AM…out of my normal comfort zone) so that we can create a new comfort zone somewhere else. It’s important when creating routines and changing your schedule to know yourself and know its okay that some things work for you and some things don’t.
It’s OK that I need breathing room in my schedule. If I simply beat myself up and said “You should be able to do all this!” all summer long, I’d be frustrated all summer long! That’s no fun. It’s much more fun to try an approach that seems on paper as if it will work well for you, and then, set in place some means to be accountable for making it happen.
How about you? Are you in need of some new routines due to the summer or to accomplish something else important to you? If so, I’d love to hear what you’re working on and what you’re doing to make fit it in! Remember, embrace what works best for you and then, find an accountability system that motivates you to make it happen! Good luck!!
Oh, and if you want to follow my progress on the 5 AM plan via Twitter, you can follow me here.
Summer is always a crazy time, I like the layout of all your plans. This past summer I worked at a city day camp, it was very upscale, lots of areas to go such as a field, playground and even a pool. Plus there were different themed camps such as Camp Rock and a middle school program.
I SO needed this post today. With only two days remaining in our school year, I’ve been putting off making a summer plan. After reading this post, I know the time is NOW to carve out the time I need for work, play, home, and me. Thanks for the encouragement to embrace new routines and find an accountability partner (real or virtual). Thanks Aby!
Aby, just curious, what time do you go to bed at night to be able to get up at 5:00? I would love to get more done in the mornings but wonder how far I would have to push my bedtime up to be able to do that.
Can relate to readjusting a schedule. I did that a few years back. I’m up by 4:20 every morning. I love the quietness of the morning and having time by myself. I don’t get enough sleep – try to be in bed at the latest by 10 – sometimes I get a power nap (20 min) in.
I am shooting for 10 PM…last night it was closer to 11 PM…and tonight looks like it could be the same! Still working out the bugs in this new schedule. 🙂
Aby
I noticed this morning that you were working on your own coffee… weren’t you grateful when Jay got up!? LOL
I am NOT a morning person, but have found that if I can get up 30 min early – take my shower, and check the first round of e-mails before releasing my son from his room for the day – the day runs much better. Thanks to just one lone half hour in the morning!!!
… and my plan only works if the sweet, innocent child doesn’t wake up before the early, early alarm. ~J
What? There’s a 5 o’clock in the morning? When did they invent that?
I am NOT a morning person and I need alot of sleep (8.5 hours is perfect)so anything before 7 I can’t even function. Seriously can’t even do 6:30 with the same amount of sleep. My daughter is starting grade one in the fall. So 12 years from now, June, I’ll be throwing my alarm clock in the garbage.
Good for you though, Aby, for taking the necessary time for yourself. I just take my time at night. Probably because as a procrastinator I panic in the evening. Realize all the things I haven’t done yet and then kick my butt and start doing them around 9 or 10pm.
Very inspiring post. I really need to get a routine in place for the summer since my oldest son is autistic and has to have a routine, he has to know what is going to happen otherwise we have a horrible day.
I think I am going to work on a plan over the next few days since school just ended yesterday for us. Starting fresh on Monday.
Aby I was so inspired by your 5am plan. Have longed to do that myself in order to exercise at 5:30am etc. and have a more productive day but my dilemma is that does not work into my family routines right now without me being deprived of sleep. In the summer, if we are not out at the ballpark until 10:30pm with my youngest (that means earliest to bed 11:15pm or 11:30pm) then my teenager is out until 10:30 or 11pm and I can not sleep until he gets home safely and then I like to catch up with him quickly. Could force the early plan anyway but find I am not as functional and by 2pm can not keep my eyes open. The reason that I am sharing all of this is because I saw today on Twitter that you are rethinking this plan and I am excited about what you might come up with. I love your ideas! I will brainstorm too and let you know if I have any suggestions.
okay Aby, after a couple of days pondering, I decided, “Life Happens”. So I decided to make my plan around that. My focus is going to be getting 7.5-8hrs of quality sleep each night and that will depend on when I get to bed! So……if I stay up until 10:45pm then I will get up b/t 6:15-6:45am, accordingly. I will not feel guilty that I wasn’t up ‘early’ the main thing is that I got adequate rest. I definitely will not try and stay up later but there are just times that I have to in order to manage kids, etc. Also, this will work well on the weekends. I will adjust the amount of sleep I need if I if necessary. Then in the Fall I should be able to go bac to a regular early bedtime………….We will see…..Let me know what you come up with!