Do you often find it hard to get started on an important task, instead waiting until the very last possible minute? If you want to break this pattern, ask yourself the following questions to pinpoint the root cause of your procrastination:
- Do I know how to do the task?
- Is there anything about doing the task that makes me uncomfortable?
- Is there anything about the end result or finishing the task that I fear or dread?
- Do I enjoy doing this task?
- Do I understand the next step to take on this project?
- Do I have the tools and supplies needed to perform this task and are they organized and easy to access?
- What feeling am I trying to avoid when I put off doing this task?
Once you understand the reasons why you procrastinate, then brainstorm solutions. For example, if you don’t know how to do a task, seek resources to help you. If you don’t enjoy doing the task, brainstorm ways to make the task more efficient or more enjoyable.
It takes time and energy to avoid doing a task. So why not invest this time and energy into understanding why you procrastinate so you can develop strategies to get started sooner, finish faster, and move onto an activity you enjoy?
This is one of my biggest problems, see the thing is i don’t have any balance in my life i have a 3 year old boy and a husband but neither one of us work because we our unable to find jobs where we live not only that i am not able to drive i do not have my license i think once i have my drivers license and am able to go farther then just walking to the grocery store i’ll get more done and just maybe i will find a job out of town, because we live in a very small town in the country. thanks for the post it helps.
I hear myself in your words Abby Hamilton…”Once this happens, then I’ll be able to do that…” Those are words in the procrastinators dictionary. Try flipping it around and saying… “Because I have done this, then that happened…” Those are words in the successful responsible persons dictionary.
At least that’s the realization I came to, is that… “I am responsible for everything in my life and if I want things to change I am responsible for changing them.” Its not about waiting for something to happen or somebody to change and then responding to it, but instead I discovered its about stepping up and taking charge of what happens to me.
So, I recommend that you go make that driver’s license appointment…right NOW!♡♡