It’s almost Halloween in the United States, which means one thing: the winter holidays are just around the corner! If the thought of the approaching holidays (and the mile-long to-do list that accompanies this time of year) has you feeling anything other than excitement and joy, keep this in mind: you don’t have to do each and every single thing! In fact, if you do less you’ll enjoy the holidays more.

Before the holidays get in full swing, take a few moments to decide which activities deserve your time and attention this holiday season. Ask your loved ones what’s most important to them. Then, decide not to do those tasks which aren’t mission critical, or that don’t add to the joy of the holidays for you or someone you love.

Ahh…the holidays just got a notch sweeter, and notch simpler!