I was going to entitle this post “the end of an era.” But as this era draws to an end, what I’m most excited about is the new era that lies ahead.
So what is this era that’s coming to an end?
My 30’s.
Poof! They’re vanishing before my eyes.
According to the clock, I have about two hours left to spend in my thirties. (But, oh no, I just thought of something. I was born in the Eastern time zone, so maybe it’s even less. Oh well…it just doesn’t matter.) Because just around the corner is a whole new era.
I’m so excited.
Thinking back over the past four decades of my life, this last one, my thirties, was by far the best. I see that as a great sign: life just keeps on getting better and better and better. I love that.
I’ve been thinking about this milestone a lot this month…perhaps this explains my lack of blogging. I’ve been doing a lot of introspective thinking; trying to get some perspective on this whole rite of passage. Moving from a thirty-something to a, uh, forty year old, well it just took a while to get my brain around. It’s really happening. It really is.
This past decade was fantastic. Most notably, my thirties brought me two amazing kids with the wonderful husband I married late in my twenties. (And seriously, if those kiddos were all I had to show for my thirties, that would be more than enough. They make my world go round.)
But that wasn’t all…my thirties were really good to me.
On a professional front, this fine decade brought me an exit from corporate America (woohoo!) It brought me simplify 101, The Organized & Inspired Scrapbooker, The Happy Scrapper, a column with Organize Magazine, but best of all…amazing new friends…some of whom I have met in person and some of whom I have come to know and love in the virtual world of blogs, websites, email and telephones. I never would have dreamed any of this were possible in my twenties. Back then…I didn’t even own a computer!
My thirties also took me on many a fine adventure. I visited places like Napa Valley with Jay, Washington with my Mom and several trips to my home state of Michigan. There were trips to Chicago for CHA; Boston, Reno and San Diego (a personal favorite!) for organizing conventions and even a trip to Las Vegas. (Note to self…fill your forties with more travel.)
My thirties were also when I ran my first 5K (and my second and third for that matter!) In my twenties I think I would have been hard-pressed to run one “K” let alone five. Just more evidence that life continues to get better.
So…I’m sharing all of this mostly for me. To process it all. To embrace it. To rejoice in the fact that life truly is getting better. Sure. I had far fewer wrinkles when I was twenty. But along with the wrinkles of my thirties came wisdom and joy that fills my mind and heart today—wisdom and joy beyond anything I could have imagined in my twenties. And it just keeps getting better.
I love this thing called life. And tomorrow, Monday, May 19th, I celebrate forty amazing years on this planet. And I give thanks for the chance to experience this miracle called life.
Bring on the forties! I can’t wait to see where this next decade, this next phase in my journey, takes me.
By the way, thank you for letting me share. Once I get through this birthday “hoopla” and the introspection that seems to be accompanying it, I promise I will blog about organizing again. I promise. 🙂
Have a great day!
Happy Birthday! Hope it’s a great one, and here’s to an even better decade than your 30s!
Happy birthday! You and Jay really get to celebrate this month 🙂
Well, happy birthday to you! (It’s officially your birthday here in the Eastern time zone!)
I never would’ve guessed that you’d be turning 40! You have such a vibrant personality and youthful appearance! Anyway, enjoy your special day to the fullest, and may you find even greater joy and success in the next 10 years…!
(Hey, did I know that you were from Michigan? I’ve lived in Sault Ste. Marie, Rochester Hills, Auburn Hills, and spent time visiting friends and family throughout the state. What a small world!)
Happy Birthday Aby! I met you a few weeks ago at the St. John’s Womens Center and you look amazing for turning 40. Enjoy this time, especially with your kids, because they grow all too quickly. It’s also great that you experience what life has to offer for yourself. It makes us better women, wives, and mothers!!
Enjoy your day……although I believe in having a BIRTHDAY WEEK!!! Have fun.
Happy Birthday!!
Welcome to Club 40… I joined on 5/3 and have to say, so far, it’s pretty fun!
Happy Birthday to you – I hope this year is your best one yet! :o)
Happy Birthday. I would never have guessed you’re 40 today! If you’d have asked me I’d have guessed you were turning 30. Hope you have a great day and that being 40 is everything you wished for and much more! Thanks for all your inspiration and tips. They’ve really challenged me to get more organised and start sorting out my clutter!
Happy Birthday Aby! What a great way to celebrate where you’ve been and where you’re going. I turn 40 in September so I can relate.
I too turn 40 this year (Dec 12th). I agree lots of thoughts about what I’ve achieved, what I want to achieve. Like you I had two children in my thirties and they are the best. I’m still struggling with the idea of being 40, but you have inspired me to think of the positives, now all I need to do is start running and that will be my goal for my 40’s. Happy Birthday love Katherine in the UK!
Happy 40th!! Have a great day!
Never a need to apologize! Happy Birthday! 🙂
Oh no! I think you ARE organizing – and thanks for sharing. I have to agree, I might bemoan the fact that I can’t ‘party’ all night anymore; that I might look ridiculous in the new hip clothing; that I am getting gray hairs – BUT I have two (soon to be three) beautiful boys who show me the world in whole new ways now. Amazing isn’t it?
happy bithday!
Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear Abby, Happy Birthday to you.
This is the last year for my 40’s and I hope to move on to the 50’s with as much enthusiasm as you have moving into your 40’s.
Happy Birthday Tooo Youuuu!!!!
I hope your 40 are 4x’s as great as the 30’s. I wish you all the best that a bd can bring. I am new to your blog, just a few weeks, and I really love it!!
Happy Birthday. May this next decade be even more amazing than all the other ones!
Happy Birthday! Hope it is filled with fun and joy and loving embraces!
Jen
Happy birthday Abby! That’s a great perspective to have. Kuddos to you. Have a fabulous day.
Happy Birthday, Aby! As my mom always said, “We don’t care when you were born; we’re just glad you were!
Sue in Alexandria VA