On my Monday morning check-in this week, I shared photos of my latest knitting project, which quite predictably, was another scarf. I thought I’d share a bit more about this scarf…and weave in an organizing lesson. Sound fun?
Every time I start a new knitting project someone in my family asks “What are you knitting?” And everytime someone asks me this question, I answer: “A scarf.” Their reply is just as predictable as my answer: “Another scarf?” they ask. Yep. Of course, another scarf. See I’m not just your ordinary knitter. Nope, I am a scarf knitter. And while this approach to knitting isn’t for everyone—it works for me. And that’s where my little organizing lesson comes in. Which is this:
Before you start a project, understand why you’re doing it.
My first step when I work with clients—whether coaching clients, in-home clients or workshop participants—is to help them understand their goals for getting organized. Sometimes we can get lost on the way to an organized space, and understanding our reasons for wanting to be more organized really helps. For some people, getting organized is all about how a space looks. We’ve all seen the organizing eye-candy in magazines—photos of stylish spaces filled with beautiful containers—and really who wouldn’t love that? But organizing can be about so much more than just creating a space that looks good. There’s function—creating a space that works well and makes sense to all of its inhabitants. There’s the feeling an organized space can give you—a feeling of calm, control, peace. And most important of all, there’s what happens on the other side of organized. The space you create in your home and life via organization opens up opportunities for doing other things…like spending more time with your family, or having friends drop by unannounced and being able to welcome them in without worry about clutter. And maybe just maybe, you’ll take up knitting. 😉
With any project—whether its an organizing project, a knitting project, or any other type of project you’d like to put on your to-do list, it’s incredibly helpful to understand your reasons for investing your time and energy into that project before you begin. What do you want out of this project anyway?
For me, knitting isn’t just about creating another scarf. Instead, it’s about the actual process of knitting. I find knitting to be incredibly relaxing, and because I spend so much of my time on the computer, knitting gives me the chance to do something tangible and create something that I can hold in my hands. It’s extremely rewarding to start—and finish—a project in a short amount of time. I also love knitting because it’s portable and it allows me to interact with and be with my family while I enjoy a hobby. Just think though—if I didn’t understand these goals I might find myself knitting a sweater or socks or something else more complicated than necessary to achieve my goals. And in the process I could grow incredibly frustrated. My creative outlet designed to eliminate stress, could become a burden that actually adds to stress to my life—which isn’t at all my desired outcome. Just as with knitting, with organizing there are many possible destinations and reasons for getting organized. And understanding your goals before starting a project makes it easier to navigate your way through the project and make decisions. So, before starting your next organizing project, ask these questions:
- What’s this all about for you?
- Why do you want to get more organized?
- How will you know when you’ve arrived at destination organization?
- And best yet, what things will you do in your freshly organized space?
Ahh…the possibilities!
Before I call this a wrap, here’s a quick photo of my latest scarf. (And wow, I have to tell you, doing a self-portrait in a mirror…not as easy as it looks!)
I found this pattern via ravelry which led me here. (Ahhh…love that site!) My scarf is narrower than the pattern called for (23 stitches wide) and shorter (because I only had two skeins of yarn.) I used Lion Brand Nature’s Choice Organic Cotton Yarn in Dusty Blue (from Michael’s.)
Looks good Aby! Nice picture of you too….
Love the scarf, and interestingly, your blog popped up in my google alerts for The Other Side of Organized because of my client, Linda Samuels and her book by that title. You have a lot of the same philosophies! Very cool!
How long did this take to knit? It’s beautiful!
Great scarf Aby! I’ve been posting a lot of organizing this last week (including my tips for getting and staying organized) — I love it! Being organized is the best feeling ever!
I love your blog! 🙂
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Thank you so much for sharing the details of your scarf. Not only the pattern details, but your philosphy behind it. I love what a creative outlet can do for my mental health, but I tend to jump in a bit too much and end up getting frustrated just like you mentioned. The KISS (keep it simple) principal especially with the goal or meaning behind things really is the key. Thank you for clarifying such an obvious point that’s often hard to see.
I LOVE it!!!! Do you sell them on Etsy? I would buy one.
Beautiful scarf Aby! Your article makes so much sense to me. I love knitting but I get frustrated over all my unfinished projects. I’m going to pick a simple scarf pattern this weekend. Thanks for sharing!
great scarf!! and thanks for your blog, i learned so much already.. 🙂
claudia
Hi, Jessica B.,
I don’t sell on etsy…that’s a great idea though! I’ll post here if I ever start doing that. 🙂
Aby
Hi, Jean,
Once I figured out what I was doing…this scarf took me around 1-1/2 weeks. 🙂
Aby